Tuesdays:
- Black Rose (BR.org) holds a weekly 'Brown Bag Munch' & educational series at
The Crucible.
Wednesdays:
- Transit (Facebook): Weekly EDM Night in Fairfax. Hosted at
Auld Shebeen downstairs.
- Shadows Hump Day Social (SwingLifestyle): Hosted
in Hyattsville, MD.
- Women's Choice Wednesday (SaintsandSinners): hosted on-premise by Saints
& Sinners in Philadelphia.
- DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC.org): Gathering of older gay/bi men at Dupont
Italian Kitchen.
- Sigma (sigmadc.org) holds open play at its on-site dungeon.
Thursdays:
- Clusterfunk at Madam's Organ (MadamsOrgan): Offering some of the
area's best jams & popular w/ alt DC.
- DC Burner Happy Hour (DCBurners): Local 16 hosts a weekly happy hour
for the DC Burner Community.
- Asylum 13 (Facebook):
Wilmington Del. hosts a weekly Dark Alt. night at Mojo 13 (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
- DC After Dark (Fetlife): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Dupont Italian Kitchen
(17th St. NW DC).
- Thirsty Thursday (SaintsandSinners): hosted on-premise by Saints &
Sinners in Philadelphia.
- L.U.R.E. (DCEagle): Special night for Leather, Uniform, Rubber, etc. formally at the DC
Eagle.
- CapitolBate (my.yapp/CBCDC): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on
Capitol Hill.
Fridays:
- The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
- Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled
theme nights.
- Tabu Social Club (TabuLife.com): Lifestyle social & play party hosted on-premise in
Catonsville, MD.
- Shadows Freaky Friday (SwingLifestyle): Onsite
play party in Hyattsville, MD.
- Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (thepleasuregardenclub.net): The Pleasure
Garden Club, one of Philly's best lifestyle parties.
- Saints & Sinners (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by
Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.
- Birds of Prey Drag Show (DCEagle): Join the ladies from Birds of Prey previously at the
DC Eagle.
- DC Bear Crue (DCBearCrue.com): The nation's largest weekly Bear event, at
Uproar Lounge (NW DC).
Saturdays:
- The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
- Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled
theme nights.
- Tabu Social Club (TabuLife.com): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in
Catonsville, MD.
- The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in Northeast MD.
- Shadows (SwingLifestyle): On-Premise Play Parties
in Hyattsville, MD.
- Pleasure Garden Club (thepleasuregardenclub.net): The Pleasure Garden
Club, one of Philly's finest lifestyle parties.
- Saints & Sinners (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by
Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.
- Avalon (Facebook): Weekly dance party w/ rotating themes & drag
show. Hosted at Soundcheck DC.
- Ziegfelds (ziegfelds.com) DC's longest running drag show. Performances actually run
Fri & Sat at 11pm.
- Sigma (sigmadc.org) holds open play at its on-site dungeon.
Sundays:
- Shadows Sinful Sunday (SwingLifestyle):
On-Premise Play Party hosted weekly in Hyattsvill, MD.
- CapitolBate (my.yapp/CBCDC): All Male Masturbation Group meeting on Capitol Hill.
- Perry's Drag Brunch (PerrysAM.com): Perry's in Adam's Morgan hosts one DC's most
popular spots for brunch.
- Nellie's Drag Brunch (NelliesSportsBar): Nellie's Sports Bar hosts a high
energy drag brunch on Sat & Sun.
1st Monday:
- Annapolis Area Kinkster Munch (Fetlife): Monlthy meet-up for kinkster in the
Annapolis area.
1st & 3rd Monday:
- Spectra DC (Fetlife): Formally Abberant, hosting all-age social gathering at
the Airedale in DC.
Last Monday:
- Munch on a Mission (Fetlife): Hosted at Mission BBQ, Ellicott City, MD. See
Fetlife for details.
2nd Tuesday:
- Dinner w/ Domme's (Fetlife): A monthly dinner held at Uno's Chicago Grill in
Union Station. Seating is 6pm.
- Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in
DC.
- MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable panel discussion following its
monthly meet & munch.
Tues before 3rd Sat:
- Your MAMA Munch (Fetlife.com): Hosted by Mistress Lynne for Dominant women &
those who serve them.
3rd Tuesday:
- Parkville Munch (Fetlife): Open to all orientations of Poly, Kink, & the
Alt. Lifestyle for Baltimore County.
1st Wednesday:
- Hybrid Hump Day Happy Hour (Fetlife Group): Monthly gathering of like minded
individuals in Frederick, Md.
1st & 3rd Wednesday:
- B.E.S.S. (Fetlife Groups) holds its Educational Series in Baltimore. See website
for schedule.
- Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group on
Chestnut Street in Center City.
2nd Wednesday:
- Carroll County Decadence (Fetlife): Monthly gathering for dinner & drinks
in Carroll County, Md.
- Harford County Munch (Fetlife): Monthly gathering at Plaza Mexico in Fallston,
Md at 7pm.
3rd Wednesday:
- LINK / Lancaster in Kink (Fetlife): Monthly gathering in Lancaster, Pa. for the
kink set. Dates subject to change.
- Baltimore Polyamory Network (Fetlife): Regional gathering for the polyamorous
lifestyle in Baltimore, Md.
1st Thursday:
- DC Burners (LocalSixteen): Weekly happy hour for DC Burners, but 1st Thurs is best.
Hosted at Local 16.
- DCAS Happy Hour (Fetlife): Monthly kink meet-up for DC Anti-Social at various
venues throughout the city.
- Baltimore Beyond Happy Hour (Fetlife): Monthly gathering for the kink crowd at
Castaway's in Canton.
- Gateway (BR.org): Monthly meeting hosted by the Black Rose now at The
Crucible.
2nd Thursday:
- Society of the Phoenix (Fetilife): Special Fire Play education & play
night at The Baltimore Playhouse.
3rd Thursday:
- Heresy (Facebook): Old School Goth-Industrial Night at Ottobar,
Baltimore.
- BR NaCK (BR.org): New & Curious Kinksters host a monthly munch at the Corner
Bakery Cafe (500 N.Capitol St NW).
- Taboo (Fetlife): Educational Kinky Dance & Play Party at Club Orpheus,
Baltimore.
4th Thursday:
- Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Monthly Happy Hour for the kink set Hosted at the
Alehouse in Columbia, Md.
1st Friday:
- Dungeon 101 (The-Crucible): The Black Rose hosts Dungeon101 at The
Crucible.
- First Contact (Fetlife): Exploratorium & Dungeon 101 Series at the
Baltimore Playhouse.
- TPA Mocha Takeover (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle play party hosted
on-premise in Northeast MD.
- Sugar Reception (sugartheshop.com): Baltimore's Premier Boutique hosts First
Fridays in Hampden, Baltimore.
- First Friday Dupont (Facebook): Art inspired gallery tour w/ wine
tastings & more.
2nd Friday:
- The Krypt (Facebook): Goth-Industrial at Club Orpheus in Baltimore. Doors
at 9pm. Cover is $5.
- Saints & Sinners Newbie Night (SaintsandSinners): Lifestyle Newbie
Night Social in Philadelphia.
2nd & 4th Friday:
- Bi-Weekly Parties (TheBiSexualLife.com): Fully Bi Play Parties for M/F/Cpls,
& CD/TG-TS. Schedule is subject to change.
3rd Friday:
- DC Social (Fetlife): Interactive play party offering revolving cohosts.
Presented by Indecent Enterprise at The Crucible.
4th Friday:
- BR Social (BR.org): Monthly meet-up & play party by The Black Rose at The
Crucible.
- Kinky Karaoke Play Party (Fetlife): Hosted monthly at the Baltimore
Playhouse 8pm-2am.
- Bi Parties (Fetlife): DMV play parties for Bi (M or F), Bi-Couples, &
TS/TG. Dates vary widely so check the link.
1st Saturday:
- Metroschock (Facebook): Baltimore's best Gothic-Fusion dance night at Metro Gallery (1001 North Charles Street).
- New Wave Dance Party (OttoBar): at the Ottobar, Baltimore.
- Beat by Beat (Facebook): Kink themed Dance Night at Club Orpheus
(Baltimore).
- Crucible Lifestyle (CrucibleLifestyle): Couples lifestyle party held each
month at the Crucible, DC.
- Kraken's Liar (Fetlife): On-premise BDSM party w/ a very high level of extreme
play. Hosted in Baltimore.
- SE Pa. Social (Fetlife): Social happy hour / meet & greet hosted just
outside of Philly.
- Sigma (sigmadc.org) holds their monthly social & open play at its on-site
dungeon.
1st & 3rd Saturday:
- Hummer (Facebook): Dance night for those into Leather, Gear, & Fetish
previously at the DC Eagle.
- Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay
& bi men. Parties are hosted at Club Philly.
2nd Saturday:
- Vangard (Facebook): DC's continued legacy
for Goth, Industrial, & Darkwave at the Safari Club.
- Toxicity (Facebook):
Goth-Industrial night at Baltimore's Depot.
- Cyber (Facebook): Cyber-Goth alternative dance party at Club Orpheus.
- Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Local Munch for the kink set in Columbia, Md.
Hosted at Champps @ 3pm.
- Risque (The-Crucible): EDM Dance Night at the Crucible.
- The Aviary (TheAviaryPhilly): Social play-party meets interactive theater night in
Philly.
- Rope & Bondage Party (sigmadc.org) hosted by Sigma at their on-site dungeon.
3rd Saturday:
- Batz Over Baltimore (Facebook): Featuring 80's, Punk, &
Goth-Industrial at the Depot in Baltimore.
- Women Rule Parties (Women-Rule-Parties.com): Md based group for dominant
women and those who serve them.
- Spank DC (SpankDC.com): All male spanking party 4pm-8pm upstairs at The Green Lantern
(DC).
4th Saturday:
- Haux Hive (HauxHive): Part educational forum, variety show, & play party at
The Crucible. Dates often change so check site.
- The Gate (Fetlife): Philly's monthly munch at
Philly Diner (Essington, PA). Dates subject to change.
Final Saturday:
- Dark & Stormy (Facebook): Featuring Darkwave, EBM, & multiple
genres at DC9.
- Shadowland (Facebook): Darkwave / Electro / Goth-Industrial dance
night at the The Village Nightclub in Lancaster, Pa.
2nd Sunday:
- Philly Polyamorists (meetup.com/phillypoly): Monthly gathering in/around
Philly. Dates subject to change.
Please Note: clubs & groups such as The Crucible, Black Rose, DC Eagle, Baltimore Playhouse, &
B.E.S.S all keep VERY busy schedules with continually evolving special interest groups. Please see those respective sites for
updates.
Also, in a recent trend, the area has EXPLODED w/ smaller local munches (many averaging only 12 or less in attendance). More prominent meet-ups are listed, but there
are just too many smaller gatherings that come & go for us to maintain. If this is of interest then please see Fetlife for possible
options in your area. Thank you.