• The Calendars Page carries Gateway Links, Featured Events, & Regionial Concerts.
• Our Main Calendar offers a FULL listing of all events from accross the spectrum.
• Major National Events are listed on our Main Calendar & to their own page.
• Weekly Recurring Events are listed here (theme nights are also on our Main Calendar).
• For News regarding recent developments in the scene, please see News & Notes.

Recurring Events for DC, Baltimore, & the Mid-Atlantic Region:

Tuesdays:

• Black Rose (BR.org) holds a weekly 'Brown Bag Munch'  & educational series at The Crucible.

Wednesdays:

• Transit (Facebook): Weekly EDM Night in Fairfax. Hosted at Auld Shebeen downstairs.
• Shadows Hump Day Social (SwingLifestyle): Hosted in Hyattsville, MD. 
• Women's Choice Wednesday (SaintsandSinners): hosted on-premise by Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.
• DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC.org): Gathering of older gay/bi men at Dupont Italian Kitchen.
• Sigma (sigmadc.org) holds open play at its on-site dungeon.

Thursdays: 

• Clusterfunk at Madam's Organ (MadamsOrgan): Offering some of the area's best jams & popular w/ alt DC.
• DC Burner Happy Hour (DCBurners): Local 16 hosts a weekly happy hour for the DC Burner Community.
• Asylum 13 (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts a weekly Dark Alt. night at Mojo 13 (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
• DC After Dark (Fetlife): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Dupont Italian Kitchen (17th St. NW DC).
• Thirsty Thursday (SaintsandSinners): hosted on-premise by Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.
• L.U.R.E. (DCEagle): Special night for Leather, Uniform, Rubber, etc. formally at the DC Eagle.
• CapitolBate (my.yapp/CBCDC): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Fridays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife.com): Lifestyle social & play party hosted on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
• Shadows Freaky Friday (SwingLifestyle): Onsite play party in Hyattsville, MD.
• Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (thepleasuregardenclub.net): The Pleasure Garden Club, one of Philly's best lifestyle parties.
• Saints & Sinners (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.
• Birds of Prey Drag Show (DCEagle): Join the ladies from Birds of Prey previously at the DC Eagle.
• DC Bear Crue (DCBearCrue.com): The nation's largest weekly Bear event, at Uproar Lounge (NW DC).

Saturdays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife.com): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
• The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in Northeast MD.
• Shadows (SwingLifestyle): On-Premise Play Parties in Hyattsville, MD.
• Pleasure Garden Club (thepleasuregardenclub.net): The Pleasure Garden Club, one of Philly's finest lifestyle parties.
• Saints & Sinners (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.
• Avalon (Facebook): Weekly dance party w/ rotating themes & drag show. Hosted at Soundcheck DC.
• Ziegfelds (ziegfelds.com) DC's longest running drag show. Performances actually run Fri & Sat at 11pm.
• Sigma (sigmadc.org) holds open play at its on-site dungeon.

Sundays:

• Shadows Sinful Sunday (SwingLifestyle): On-Premise Play Party hosted weekly in Hyattsvill, MD.
• CapitolBate (my.yapp/CBCDC): All Male Masturbation Group meeting on Capitol Hill.
• Perry's Drag Brunch (PerrysAM.com): Perry's in Adam's Morgan hosts one DC's most popular spots for brunch.
• Nellie's Drag Brunch (NelliesSportsBar): Nellie's Sports Bar hosts a high energy drag brunch on Sat & Sun.
   

1st Monday:

• Annapolis Area Kinkster Munch (Fetlife): Monlthy meet-up for kinkster in the Annapolis area.

1st & 3rd Monday:

• Spectra DC (Fetlife): Formally Abberant, hosting all-age social gathering at the Airedale in DC.

Last Monday:

• Munch on a Mission (Fetlife): Hosted at Mission BBQ, Ellicott City, MD. See Fetlife for details.

2nd Tuesday: 

• Dinner w/ Domme's (Fetlife): A monthly dinner held at Uno's Chicago Grill in Union Station. Seating is 6pm.
• Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in DC. 
• MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable panel discussion following its monthly meet & munch.

Tues before 3rd Sat: 

• Your MAMA Munch (Fetlife.com): Hosted by Mistress Lynne for Dominant women & those who serve them.

3rd Tuesday:

• Parkville Munch (Fetlife): Open to all orientations of Poly, Kink, & the Alt. Lifestyle for Baltimore County.

1st Wednesday:

• Hybrid Hump Day Happy Hour (Fetlife Group): Monthly gathering of like minded individuals in Frederick, Md.

1st & 3rd Wednesday: 

• B.E.S.S. (Fetlife Groups) holds its Educational Series in Baltimore. See website for schedule.
• Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group on Chestnut Street in Center City.

2nd Wednesday: 

• Carroll County Decadence (Fetlife): Monthly gathering for dinner & drinks in Carroll County, Md.
• Harford County Munch (Fetlife): Monthly gathering at Plaza Mexico in Fallston, Md at 7pm.

3rd Wednesday:

• LINK / Lancaster in Kink (Fetlife): Monthly gathering in Lancaster, Pa. for the kink set. Dates subject to change.
• Baltimore Polyamory Network (Fetlife): Regional gathering for the polyamorous lifestyle in Baltimore, Md.

1st Thursday: 

• DC Burners (LocalSixteen): Weekly happy hour for DC Burners, but 1st Thurs is best. Hosted at Local 16.
• DCAS Happy Hour (Fetlife): Monthly kink meet-up for DC Anti-Social at various venues throughout the city.
• Baltimore Beyond Happy Hour (Fetlife): Monthly gathering for the kink crowd at Castaway's in Canton.
• Gateway (BR.org): Monthly meeting hosted by the Black Rose now at The Crucible.

2nd Thursday:

• Society of the Phoenix (Fetilife): Special Fire Play education & play night at The Baltimore Playhouse.

3rd Thursday:

• Heresy (Facebook): Old School Goth-Industrial Night at Ottobar, Baltimore. 
• BR NaCK (BR.org): New & Curious Kinksters host a monthly munch at the Corner Bakery Cafe (500 N.Capitol St NW).
• Taboo (Fetlife): Educational Kinky Dance & Play Party at Club Orpheus, Baltimore.

4th Thursday: 

• Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Monthly Happy Hour for the kink set Hosted at the Alehouse in Columbia, Md.

1st Friday:

• Dungeon 101 (The-Crucible): The Black Rose hosts Dungeon101 at The Crucible.
• First Contact (Fetlife): Exploratorium & Dungeon 101 Series at the Baltimore Playhouse.
• TPA Mocha Takeover (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle play party hosted on-premise in Northeast MD.
• Sugar Reception (sugartheshop.com): Baltimore's Premier Boutique hosts First Fridays in Hampden, Baltimore.
• First Friday Dupont (Facebook): Art inspired gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.

2nd Friday:

• The Krypt (Facebook): Goth-Industrial at Club Orpheus in Baltimore. Doors at 9pm. Cover is $5.
• Saints & Sinners Newbie Night  (SaintsandSinners): Lifestyle Newbie Night Social in Philadelphia.

2nd & 4th Friday:

• Bi-Weekly Parties (TheBiSexualLife.com): Fully Bi Play Parties for M/F/Cpls, & CD/TG-TS. Schedule is subject to change.

3rd Friday:

• DC Social (Fetlife): Interactive play party offering revolving cohosts. Presented by Indecent Enterprise at The Crucible.

4th Friday:

• BR Social (BR.org): Monthly meet-up & play party by The Black Rose at The Crucible. 
• Kinky Karaoke Play Party (Fetlife): Hosted monthly at the Baltimore Playhouse 8pm-2am.
• Bi Parties (Fetlife): DMV play parties for Bi (M or F), Bi-Couples, & TS/TG. Dates vary widely so check the link.

1st Saturday:

• Metroschock (Facebook): Baltimore's best Gothic-Fusion dance night at Metro Gallery (1001 North Charles Street).
• New Wave Dance Party (OttoBar): at the Ottobar, Baltimore.
• Beat by Beat (Facebook): Kink themed Dance Night at Club Orpheus (Baltimore). 
• Crucible Lifestyle (CrucibleLifestyle): Couples lifestyle party held each month at the Crucible, DC.
• Kraken's Liar (Fetlife): On-premise BDSM party w/ a very high level of extreme play. Hosted in Baltimore.
• SE Pa. Social (Fetlife): Social happy hour / meet & greet hosted just outside of Philly.
• Sigma (sigmadc.org) holds their monthly social & open play at its on-site dungeon.

1st & 3rd Saturday:

• Hummer (Facebook): Dance night for those into Leather, Gear, & Fetish previously at the DC Eagle.
• Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men. Parties are hosted at Club Philly.

2nd Saturday:

• Vangard (Facebook): DC's continued legacy for Goth, Industrial, & Darkwave at the Safari Club.
• Toxicity (Facebook): Goth-Industrial night at Baltimore's Depot.
• Cyber (Facebook): Cyber-Goth alternative dance party at Club Orpheus.
• Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Local Munch for the kink set in Columbia, Md. Hosted at Champps @ 3pm.
• Risque (The-Crucible): EDM Dance Night at the Crucible.
• The Aviary (TheAviaryPhilly): Social play-party meets interactive theater night in Philly.  
• Rope & Bondage Party (sigmadc.org) hosted by Sigma at their on-site dungeon.

3rd Saturday:

• Batz Over Baltimore (Facebook): Featuring 80's, Punk, & Goth-Industrial at the Depot in Baltimore.
• Women Rule Parties (Women-Rule-Parties.com): Md based group for dominant women and those who serve them.
• Spank DC (SpankDC.com): All male spanking party 4pm-8pm upstairs at The Green Lantern (DC).

4th Saturday:

• Haux Hive (HauxHive): Part educational forum, variety show, & play party at The Crucible. Dates often change so check site.
• The Gate (Fetlife): Philly's monthly munch at Philly Diner (Essington, PA). Dates subject to change.

Final Saturday:

• Dark & Stormy (Facebook): Featuring Darkwave, EBM, & multiple genres at DC9.
• Shadowland (Facebook): Darkwave / Electro / Goth-Industrial dance night at the The Village Nightclub in Lancaster, Pa.

2nd Sunday:

• Philly Polyamorists (meetup.com/phillypoly): Monthly gathering in/around Philly. Dates subject to change.

Please Note: clubs & groups such as The Crucible, Black Rose, DC Eagle, Baltimore Playhouse, & B.E.S.S all keep VERY busy schedules with continually evolving special interest groups. Please see those respective sites for updates. 

Also, in a recent trend, the area has EXPLODED w/ smaller local munches (many averaging only 12 or less in attendance). More prominent meet-ups are listed, but there are just too many smaller gatherings that come & go for us to maintain. If this is of interest then please see Fetlife for possible options in your area. Thank you.

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