• The Calendars Page carries Gateway Links, Featured Events, & Regionial Concerts.
• Our Main Calendar offers a FULL listing of all events from accross the spectrum.
• Major National Events are listed on our Main Calendar & to their own page.
• Weekly Recurring Events are listed here (theme nights are also on our Main Calendar).
• For News regarding recent developments in the scene, please see News & Notes.

Recurring Events for DC, Baltimore, & the Mid-Atlantic Region:

Tuesdays:

• Black Rose (BR.org) holds a weekly 'Brown Bag Munch'  & educational series at The Crucible.

Wednesdays:

• Transit (Facebook): Weekly EDM Night in Fairfax. Hosted at Auld Shebeen downstairs.
• DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men at Dupont Italian Kitchen.
• Sigma (sigmadc) holds open play theme nights at The Crucible.

Thursdays:

• Asylum 13 (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts a weekly Dark Alt. night at Bar XIII (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
• DC After Dark (Fetlife): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Metrobar (640 Rhode Island Ave. NW DC).
• CapitolBate (my.yapp/CBCDC): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Fridays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle social & play party hosted on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
• Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (thepleasuregardenclub): The Pleasure Garden Club, one of Philly's best lifestyle parties.
• S&S Flirty Friday (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.
• DC Bear Crue (DCBearCrue): The nation's largest weekly Bear event, at Uproar Lounge (NW DC).

Saturdays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
• The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in Northeast MD.
• Pleasure Garden Club (thepleasuregardenclub.net): The Pleasure Garden Club, one of Philly's finest lifestyle parties.
• Saints & Sinners (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by Saints & Sinners in Philadelphia.

Sundays:

• Perry's Drag Brunch (PerrysAM.com): Perry's in Adam's Morgan hosts one DC's most popular spots for brunch.
• Nellie's Drag Brunch (NelliesSportsBar): Nellie's Sports Bar hosts a high energy drag brunch on Sat & Sun.
   

1st Monday:

• Annapolis Area Kinkster Munch (Fetlife): Monlthy meet-up for kinkster in the Annapolis area. Currently on hiatus.

2nd Monday(ish):

• Munch on a Mission (Fetlife): Formally Owings Mills Mumch. Schedule is subject to change - see Fetlife for details.

2nd Tuesday: 

• Dinner w/ Domme's (Fetlife): A monthly dinner held at Uno's Chicago Grill in Union Station. Currently on hiatus.
• Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in DC. Schedule subject to vary.
• MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable discussion following its monthly meet-up.

3rd Tuesday:

• Parkville Munch (Fetlife): Open to all orientations of Poly, Kink, & the Alt. Lifestyle for Baltimore County.

1st Wednesday:

• Hybrid Hump Day Happy Hour (Fetlife Group): Monthly gathering in Frederick, Md.

1st & 3rd Wednesday: 

• B.E.S.S. (Fetlife Groups) holds its Educational Series in Baltimore. See website for schedule.
• Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group on Chestnut Street in Center City.

2nd Wednesday: 

• Carroll County Decadence (Fetlife): Monthly gathering for dinner & drinks in Carroll County, Md.
• MassColab (MassCollab): Pre-Party Happy Hour at Trade, followed by Play Party at The Crew Club (NW DC).

3rd Wednesday:

• LINK / Lancaster in Kink (Fetlife): Gathering in Lancaster, Pa. for the kink set. Dates subject to change.
• Baltimore Polyamory Network (Fetlife): Regional gathering for the polyamorous lifestyle in Baltimore, Md.

1st Thursday: 

• DCAS Happy Hour (Fetlife): kink meet-up for DC Anti-Social at various venues throughout the city. Dates subject to change.
• Gateway (BR.org): Monthly meeting hosted by the Black Rose now at The Crucible.

2nd Thursday:

• Society of the Phoenix (Fetilife): Special Fire Play education & play night at The Balt. Playhouse. Currently on hiatus.

3rd Thursday: 

• SE Pa. Social Monty Munch (Fetlife): Social happy hour / meet & greet hosted just outside of Philly.

4th Thursday: 

• Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Happy Hour for the kink set, hosted at the Alehouse in Columbia, Md. Currently on hiatus.
• BR NaCK (BR.org): Black Rose New & Curious Kinksters host a monthly (NW DC).

1st Friday:

• Toxicity (Facebook): Goth-Industrial night at Baltimore's Depot. Dates subject to change.
• Dungeon 101 (The-Crucible): The Black Rose hosts Dungeon101 at The Crucible.
• First Contact (Fetlife): Exploratorium & Dungeon 101 Series at the Baltimore Playhouse.
• First Friday Dupont (Facebook): Art inspired gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.

4th Friday:

• BR Social (BR.org): Monthly meet-up & play party by The Black Rose at The Crucible. 
• Kinky Karaoke Play Party (Fetlife): Hosted monthly at the Baltimore Playhouse 8pm-2am.

1st Saturday:

• Metroschock (Facebook): Baltimore's best Gothic-Fusion dance night at Metro Gallery (1001 North Charles Street).

1st & 3rd Saturday:

• Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men. Parties are hosted at Club Philly.

2nd Saturday:

• Vangard (Facebook): DC's continued legacy for Goth, Industrial, & Darkwave at the Safari Club.
• Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Local Munch for the kink set in Columbia, Md. Currently on hiatus.
• Risque (The-Crucible): EDM Dance Night at the Crucible.
• The Aviary (TheAviaryPhilly): Social play-party meets interactive theater night in Philly.  

3rd Saturday:

• Batz Over Baltimore (Facebook): Featuring 80's, Punk, & Goth-Industrial at the Depot in Baltimore. Subject to hiatus.
• Women Rule (Women-Rule-Parties.com): Md group for Domme's & those who serve them. Currently meeting on Zoom.
• Spank DC (SpankDC.com): All male spanking party 4pm-8pm upstairs at The Green Lantern (DC).

4th Saturday:

• The Gate (Fetlife): Philly munch at Philly Diner (Essington, PA). Dates subject to change. Currently on hiatus.

Final Saturday:

• Dark & Stormy (Facebook): Featuring Darkwave, EBM, & multiple genres at DC9.
• Shadowland (Facebook): Darkwave / Electro / Goth-Industrial dance night at the The Village Nightclub in Lancaster, Pa.

Please Note: clubs & groups such as The Crucible, Black Rose, Baltimore Playhouse, & B.E.S.S all keep VERY busy schedules with continually evolving special interest groups. Please see those respective sites for updates. 

In a recent trend, the area has EXPLODED w/ smaller local munches (many averaging only 12 or less in attendance). More prominent meet-ups are listed, but there are just too many smaller gatherings that come & go for us to maintain. If this is of interest then please see Fetlife for possible options in your area. Thank you.

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