~ Main Calendar ~

Events are covered locally, regionally, & on a national scale. This includes listings for special gatherings, recurring events, & one-time affairs. Members are encouraged to submit entries for consideration. Each listing is sorted by the date of the event then color coded & categorized by the nature of its interest: 

  • Alternative Music & Culture in Rust.
  • BDSM & Fetish in Red.
  • Lifestyle & Swinger in Green.
  • Gay, Bi, & Transgender in Wine.
  • Mainstream in White.

Please note: some crossover will often exist, so the function in question will be listed by the nature that most predominantly reflects the general practice of its venue.

  • The Calendars Page carries Gateway Links, Featured Events, & Regionial Concerts.
  • Major National Events are listed here & under their own page.
  • Weekly Recurring Events are listed on their own page (theme nights will also be listed here).
  • For News regarding recent developments in the scene, please see News & Notes.

Full Calendar for DC, Baltimore, the Mid-Atlantic & National Stage: 2025

All calendars are current as of Fall 2025.

 

October:

 

Sun 12th - The DC Fetish Ball (DCFetishBall): In our current times of upheaval & political theater, The DC Fetish Ball continues our ongoing tradition to bring a night of respite & open possibility. So please join us as we present this year's featured performance by international sensation Miss Rubber Doll! With some of the scene's very best DJ's, models, fashion, & national talent, plus an incredible play space in one of the city's most lavish venues, THIS is a night you WON'T to miss! Are you ready for The Ball? 

 

 

Weekend of 10th-12th:

  • Constellation Burn (ConstellationBurn): East Coast Burning Man event at Fort Royal Farm, WV.
  • Organ Grinders Ball (FetishPlayland): Top Fetish Ball in Cleveland, OH.
  • New Culture Fall Retreat (CFNS): Poly camp at the Abrams Creek Retreat Center, West Virginia.

Mon 13th - Indigenous Peoples Day. 

Tue 14th: 

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in DC. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable discussion following its monthly meet-up.

Wed 15th: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Kink Social Meet-up at The Ale House, Columbia Md.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 16th - National Boss Day. 

  • Solid State (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts Goth-Indsrial night at Bar XIII (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • Active & Kinky (Fetlife): DC meet-up at the Continental Beer Garden.
  • Society of the Phoenix (Fetlife): Fire Play education & play night at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Weekend of the 17th-19th:

  • War of Wings (WarofWingsSCA): Medieval festival held outside of Atlanta, Ga. (runs the 12th-20th).
  • The Woods OctoBear Weekend (TheWoods): Themed nudist retreat in Lehighton, Pa.
  • Mr. International Rubber (MIRubber): Hosted in Chicago, Il.

Fri: 17th: 

  • Vortex Friday (Facebook): Dark Wave Dance Night at The Warehouse on Watts by DJ Mighty Mike Saga.
  • Crucible QINK (The-Crucible): "Queer Identifying 'N Kinky" Fetish theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Newbie Night Weekend (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Hotwife Party (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 18th: 

  • Charm City Chill (Facebook): Sunset & Chill presents their first event for Baltimore! 
  • Impuse (Facebook): DC's newest Fetish Dance Party at the Safari Lounge (NW DC). Formally Desires.
  • Crucible Bruise (The-Crucible): Femme Fatale open play theme night alternating every other month.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Haunted House (Fetlife): Fantasy House presents one of their best parties for the annual calendar. 
  • Tabu Newbie Night Weekend (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Fang Banger's Ball (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.
  • Spank DC (SpankDC.com): All male spanking party 4pm-8pm upstairs at The Green Lantern (DC).
  • Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men.

Sun 19th: 

  • Sunday Love (Instagram): Burner based gathering for creative expression. Runs from March to Oct at Flash (NW DC).
  • SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
  • Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Metro, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!

Tue 21st - Honoring J.D.D.

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group.

Wed 22nd: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 23rd - Fallout (2077): The Day the Bombs Fell.

  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • BR NaCK (BR.org): Black Rose "New and Curious Kinksters" host a monthly discussion (NW DC).
  • Crucible Rendevous (The-Crucible): Queer friendly, Swinger/Kink theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Weekend of the 24th-26th:

  • World Oddities Expo (woetothe): Hosted in N.Va. at the Dulles Expo Center.
  • DC Tattoo Arts Festival (VillanArts): Also at the Dulles Expo Center.
  • Fantasy Fest (FantasyFest.com): Full week of adult themes carry Mardi Gras Style festival in Key West, Fla.
  • Halloween Fetish Ball (FetishFactory): Gala event by Fetish Factory in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. 
  • Nuit Demonia (Nuitdemonia): An incredibly elegant fetish affair in the heart of Paris.
  • Surrender (DarkOdyssey): Sex positive fetish focused hotel takeover San Jose, CA.
  • Caliente Halloween Ball (CalienteResort): Hosted by Caliente On-site Resort, Tampa, Fla.
  • EXXXotica Expo (ExxxoticaExpo): Nationally recognized adult expo in Edison, NJ.
  • Trans Week (PtownTourism): Provincetown celebration of Trans Culture since 1978.

Fri 24th: 

  • Drac's Ball (Facebook/DracsBall): at The Underground Arts, Philly.
  • Halloween Fetish Ball (FetishFactory): By Fetish Factory in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla.
  • BPH Kinky Karaoki (Fetlife): Kink play party w/ karaoki shenanigans at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • Black Rose Social (The-Crucible): Monthly open play for Black Rose at The Crucible.
  • Tabu Happy Hour (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Mocha Party (ThePrivateAffair): P.O.C. lifestyle party by Mocha at The Private Affair (N.East MD).
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 25th: 

  • KULTure Shock (Facebook): Industrial, Dark Wave, EBM, & Synthpop dance night (Philly).
  • Red Opium Masquerade Ball (Facebook): A vetted Masquerade by Balaibalan Productions. 
  • Crucible Black & Kinky (The-Crucible): Open play theme night focused toward P.O.C..
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Halloween Blackout Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Witch in the Woods (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle Halloween play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sun 26th: 

  • Sunday Love (Instagram): Burner based gathering for creative expression. Runs from March to Oct at Flash (NW DC).
  • SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
  • Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Metro, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!

Mon 27th: 

  • Dinner w/ Domme's (Fetlife): The DC Sub Club hosts a monthly dinner at The Assembly in Rosslyn, Va.

Tues 28th: 

  • DC High Heel Race (JRsBarDC): As close as DC comes to Mardi Gras. Open to all & draws thousands.

Wed 29th: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 30th - Mistchief Night / Devil's Night. 

  • 18th Annual Halloween Ball (Facebook): A top tier affair by Xris SMack! & Stimulate in New York. 
  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Weekend of the 31st-2nd:

  • Vikings Con (VikingsCon): Fully immersive Vikings event in Charles County, Md.
  • Endless Night Vampire Ball (EndlessNight): Elegance & Decadence meet in New Orleans.
  • Hedonism Halloween (Hedonism): Holiday Theme Week at Hedonism II in Jamaica.
  • Fetish & Fantasy Halloween Ball (HalloweenBall): In the heart of Sin City - Las Vegas, Nevada.
  • Torture Garden Halloween Ball (TortureGarden): London hosts one of the largest fetish balls in Europe.

Fri 31st - Halloween / Samhain. 

  • Crucible Halloween Party (The-Crucible): Open play theme night at The Crucible DC.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Day of te Dead Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

 

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November:

 

Sat 1st - Day of the Dead.

  • Metroschock (Facebook): Baltimore's best Gothic-Fusion dance night at Metro Gallery (1001 North Charles Street).
  • Erotic Expo (Instagram): An artistic educational expo at the Black Cat (NW DC). Runs from 5pm-11pm. 
  • Shadowland (Instagram): Darkwave / Electro / Goth-Industrial dance night at Little Mutants in Lancaster, Pa.
  • Sinfully Naughty (The-Crucible): Fetish theme night hosted at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Baltimore Playhouse (Fetlife): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Anything Anywhere (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Bare as You Dare (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.
  • Sigma (sigmadc) holds demo educational nights at The Green Lantern (NW DC): 5pm
  • Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men.

Sun 2nd - All Souls Day / Daylight Savings Ends.

Tue 4th - Mid-Term Elections.

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group.

Wed 5th - Full Beaver Moon / Guy Fawkes Day. 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thur 6th: 

  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • Gateway (BR.org): Monthly meeting hosted by the Black Rose at The Crucible.
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Weekend of the 7th-9th:

  • Tampa Tattoo Arts Festival (VillanArts): At the Tampa Convention Center
  • Passion Fetish Fair (Passion-Messe): European BDSM/Fetish Weekend in Hamburg, Germany.
  • Prague Fetish Weekend (FetishWeekend.cz): Full fetish flair in one of Europe's most historic cities.
  • Bliss Cruise (ToplessTravel): Luxurious week-long lifestyle cruise aboard the Equinox.

Fri 7th: 

  • Slings & Arrows (Facebook/Groups): Next Generation Dark Wave Goth Night at DC9 (NW DC).
  • Dungeon 101 (The-Crucible): The Black Rose hosts Dungeon101 at The Crucible.
  • First Contact (Fetlife): Exploratorium & Dungeon 101 Series at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • SE Pa. Social (Fetlife): Social happy hour / meet & greet hosted just outside of Philly.
  • Tabu Blackout Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.
  • First Friday Art Walk (ihearthighland): Highlandtown Baltimore hosts a gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.
  • First Friday Dupont (Facebook): Art inspired gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.

Sat 8th:

  • Fiction (Facebook): DC's continued legacy for Goth, Industrial, & Darkwave at Haydee's Restaurant.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Risque (The-Crucible): EDM Dance Night / Play Party at The Crucible.
  • Masque (Fetlife): Themed play party by Corrupt Minds, Philly.
  • The Aviary (TheAviaryPhilly): Social play-party meets interactive theater night in Philly.  
  • Tabu Liquid Metal (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sun 9th:

  • SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
  • Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Metro, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!
  • BLUF Social (BLUF.com): All Male Leather Social held 4pm each month at Trade (NW DC).

Tue 11th - Veteran’s Day / Armistice Day.

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in DC. Schedule subject to vary.
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable discussion following its monthly meet-up.

Wed 12th: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 13th:  

  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • BPH Tangled Up (BaltimorePlayhouse): The Baltimore Playhouse hosts an open ropeshare shibari party.
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Weekend of the 14th-16th:

  • Baltimore Fairy Faire (Facebook): Three day festival for all things Fae. At Baltimore's Sheraton North. 
  • Conjuration (Conjurationcon): Immersive magical fantasy convention hosted in Atlanta, Ga.
  • KinkyCon (Fetlife): Wicked wild weekend dedicated to kink culture in New England.

Fri 14th - World Diabetes Awareness Day.

  • Crucible Black & Kinky (The-Crucible): Open play theme night focused toward P.O.C.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Anything Anywhere Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Mocha Party (ThePrivateAffair): P.O.C. lifestyle party by Mocha at The Private Affair (N.East MD).
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 15th:

  • Scary Fairie Ball (Facebook): Main event for the Fairy Fair Weekend. At Baltimore's Sheraton North. 
  • Crucible Blush (The-Crucible): Femme Fatale open play theme night alternating every other month.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Presents Wicked (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Denim & Diamonds (ThePrivateAffair): The Private Affair social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.
  • Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men.

Sun 16th:

Tue 18th:

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group.

Wed 19th: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Kink Social Meet-up at The Ale House, Columbia Md.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 20th:  

  • Solid State (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts Goth-Indsrial night at Bar XIII (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • Active & Kinky (Fetlife): DC meet-up at the Continental Beer Garden. On hiatus during winter months.
  • Society of the Phoenix (Fetlife): Fire Play education & play night at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Weekend of the 21st-23rd:

  • Monster Mania (MonsterMania): Horror & SciFi convention in Oaks, Pa.

Fri 21st: 

  • Vortex Friday (Facebook): Dark Wave Dance Night at The Warehouse on Watts by DJ Mighty Mike Saga.
  • Crucible QINK (The-Crucible): "Queer Identifying 'N Kinky" Fetish theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Newbie Weekend (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Hotwife Party (ThePrivateAffair): The Private Affair social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 22nd:

  • Impuse (Facebook): DC's newest Fetish Dance Party at the Safari Lounge (NW DC).
  • Crucible Animal House (The-Crucible): Pet play theme night at The Crucible DC.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Newbie Weekend (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Newbie Night (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.
  • Spank DC (SpankDC.com): All male spanking party 4pm-8pm upstairs at The Green Lantern (DC).

Sun 23rd:

Mon 24th: 

  • Dinner w/ Domme's (Fetlife): The DC Sub Club hosts a monthly dinner at The Assembly in Rosslyn, Va.

Tue 25th - Rememberance. 

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).

Wed 26th: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 27th - Thanksgiving. 

Thanksgiving Weekend (27th-30th):

  • World's Largest Disco (theworldslargestdisco): Tribute to 70’s Disco at the Buffalo Niagara Convention Center.  
  • Hedonism Anniversary Week (Hedonism): One of their biggest weeks of the year!

Fri 28th - Black Friday.

  • Black Rose Social (The-Crucible): Open play social for Black Rose at The Crucible DC.
  • BPH Kinky Karaoki (Fetlife): Kink play party w/ karaoki shenanigans at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • Tabu Happy Hour (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 29th - Small Business Saturday (buy local).

  • KULTure Shock (Facebook): Industrial, Dark Wave, EBM, & Synthpop dance night (Philly).
  • Suspend DC (The-Crucible): Full Hook Suspension & open play at The Crucible DC.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Blackout Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Bunkhouse Party (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sun 30th - Secondhand Sunday.

 

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December:

 

Mon 1st - St.Andrew Day / Cyber Monday.

Tue 2nd: 

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group.

Wed 3rd: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 4th - Full Cold Moon. 

  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • Gateway (BR.org): Monthly meeting hosted by the Black Rose at The Crucible.
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Weekend of the 5th-7th:

  • Florida Power Exchange (FloridaPowerExchange): Hosted in Clearwater, Fla.
  • EXXXotica Expo (ExxxoticaExpo): Nationally recognized adult expo comes to DC/N.Va.
  • Hedonism Wet Wild & Wicked (Hedonism): Week-long themed event at Hedonism II in Jamaica.
  • Pig Week (PigWeek.com): Ft. Lauderdale is host to an ongoing week of play parties, “Because All Men Are Pigs.”

Fri 5th - Krampusnacht.  

  • Slings & Arrows (Facebook/Groups): Next Generation Dark Wave Goth Night at DC9 (NW DC).
  • Dungeon 101 (The-Crucible): The Black Rose hosts Dungeon101 at The Crucible.
  • First Contact (Fetlife): Exploratorium & Dungeon 101 Series at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • SE Pa. Social (Fetlife): Social happy hour / meet & greet hosted just outside of Philly.
  • Tabu Jersey Night (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.
  • TPA Mocha Party (ThePrivateAffair.com): P.O.C. lifestyle party by Mocha at The Private Affair (N.East MD).
  • First Friday Art Walk (ihearthighland): Highlandtown Baltimore hosts a gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.
  • First Friday Dupont (Facebook): Art inspired gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.

Sat 6th - St.Nicholas Day.

  • Naughty Snowball (Facebook): The Prodigal Son returns! A grand gala for DC Burners by Mischief DC. 
  • Metroschock (Facebook): Baltimore's best Gothic-Fusion dance night at Metro Gallery (1001 North Charles Street).
  • Shadowland (Instagram): Darkwave / Electro / Goth-Industrial dance night at Little Mutants in Lancaster, Pa.
  • Torture Garden Xmas Ball (TortureGarden): London hosts one of the largest & most respected fetish balls in Europe.
  • Sinfully Naughty (The-Crucible): Fetish theme night hosted at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Baltimore Playhouse (Fetlife): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Anything Anywhere (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Grinchmas (ThePrivateAffair): The Private Affair social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.
  • Sigma (sigmadc) holds demo educational nights at The Green Lantern (NW DC): 5pm
  • Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men.

Sun 7th - Pearl Harbor Remembrance. 

Tues 9th: 

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in DC.
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable discussion following its monthly meet-up.

Wed 10th: 

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 11th:

  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • BPH Tangled Up (BaltimorePlayhouse): The Baltimore Playhouse hosts an open ropeshare shibari party.
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Fri 12th: 

  • Crucible Black & Kinky (The-Crucible): Open play theme night focused toward P.O.C.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (Fetlife): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Blackout Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Bad Sweater Party (ThePrivateAffair): The Private Affair social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 13th: 

  • Bad Fae Ball (Instagram): One of the region's best new nights. Hosted at the Mobtown Ballroom in Baltimore.  
  • Fiction (Facebook): DC's continued legacy for Goth, Industrial, & Darkwave at Haydee's Restaurant.
  • Fetish Factory Xtreme Fetish Ball (FetishFactory): Gala event w/ full play in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. 
  • Torture Garden Xmas Ball II (TortureGarden): London hosts one of the largest & most respected fetish balls in Europe.
  • Risque (The-Crucible): EDM Dance Night / Play Party at The Crucible.
  • Masque (Fetlife): Themed play party by Corrupt Minds, Philly.
  • The Aviary (TheAviaryPhilly): Social play-party meets interactive theater night in Philly.  
  • Tabu Naughty Office Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Onesie Party (ThePrivateAffair): The Private Affair social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sun 14th: 

  • SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
  • BLUF Social (BLUF.com): All Male Leather Social held 4pm each month at Trade (NW DC).
  • Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Metro, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!

Tue 16th: 

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group.

Wed 17th - Saturnalia.

  • Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
  • Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Kink Social Meet-up at The Ale House, Columbia Md.
  • DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 18th: 

  • Solid State (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts Goth-Indsrial night at Bar XIII (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
  • Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
  • Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
  • DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
  • Active & Kinky (Fetlife): DC meet-up at the Continental Beer Garden. On hiatus during winter months.
  • Society of the Phoenix (Fetlife): Fire Play education & play night at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill.

Fri 19th: 

  • Vortex Friday (Facebook): Dark Wave Dance Night at The Warehouse on Watts by DJ Mighty Mike Saga.
  • Crucible QINK (The-Crucible): "Queer Identifying 'N Kinky" Fetish theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).
  • Baltimore Playhouse (Fetlife): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Newbie Night (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA Hotwife Party (ThePrivateAffair): The Private Affair social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 20th: 

  • U-Party Presents Yule (UndergroundParties): A holiday celebration worthy of the Old Gods. 

Sun 21st - Yule / Winter Solstice. 

Tue 23rd Festivus. 

  • Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
  • Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).

Wed 24th - Xmas Eve.

  • Santa Takes Flight (SceneSocials): we're bringing back our annual tradition for the holidays. 

Thu 25th - Xmas Day. 

Fri 26th - Boxing Day (U.K.).

  • Black Rose Social (The-Crucible): Open play social for Black Rose at The Crucible DC.
  • BPH Kinky Karaoki (Fetlife): Kink play party w/ karaoki shenanigans at The Baltimore Playhouse.
  • Tabu Happy Hour (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 27th: 

  • KULTure Shock (Facebook): Industrial, Dark Wave, EBM, & Synthpop dance night (Philly).
  • Not NYE Fetish Ball (FetishFactory): Grand gala by Fetish Factory in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. 
  • Crucible Animla House (The-Crucible): Pet play theme night at The Crucible DC.
  • Baltimore Playhouse (Fetlife): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
  • Tabu Blackout Party (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
  • Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sun 28th: 

Tues 30th - Richard A.D. Birthday (not dead yet).

  •  Torture Garden NOT-NYE Ball (TortureGarden): London hosts one of the largest fetish balls in Europe.

New Years Eve (Wed 31st):

  • New Culture NYE Celebration (CFNS): Spiritual Celebration at Abrams Creek Spirit Center (WV).
  • Boudior Boheme Masquerade Ball (Facebook): A Vetted Masquerade by Balaibalan Productions. 
  • The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds an open play NYE celebration.
  • Tabu New Years Eve (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
  • TPA NYE Glow Party (ThePrivateAffair.com): The Private Affair play party on-premise in Northeast MD.
  • PGC NYE Ball (thepleasuregardenclub.net): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, NYE Formal.
  • Saints&Sinners (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by Saints & Sinners in Philly.
  • Hedonism NYE Getaway (Hedonism): Week-long themed event at Hedonism II in Jamaica.

 

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