Events are covered regionally & on a national scale. This includes listings for special gatherings, recurring events, & one-time affairs. Each listing is sorted by the date of the event then color coded by the nature of its interest:

  • Alternative Music & Culture in Rust.
  • BDSM & Fetish in Red.
  • Lifestyle & Swinger in Green.
  • Gay, Bi, & Transgender in Wine.
  • Mainstream in White.

Please note: some crossover will often exist, so the function in question will be listed by the nature that most reflects the general practice of its venue.

  • Our Main Calendar offers a Full Listing of all regional events.
  • Major National Events are on our Main Calendar & under their own page.
  • Please see Recurring Events for ongoing gatherings on a consistent schedule.
  • See News & Notes for recent developments in the scene.
  • For Featured Events & Concerts please see below...

Featured Events:


This Year Marks Our 15 Year Anniversary! Initial efforts for the site were launched back in Feb 2003. We soon added social media (starting with LiveJournal), & would later include such initiatives as The DC Fetish Ball, The Black & White Ball, The Metro Spring Formal, eXotica DC, Underground Parties, Scene Socials, & countless joint ventures. It’s been one hell of a ride with many ups & downs, but our core mission has never changed…


To serve as a primary gateway to the ‘entire’ spectrum of the alternative, underground, & adult scene for the Mid-Atlantic region, lift the fog for what’s going on in & around the area, & create a forum for like minds to come together, & for bridges to be built, from one culture to another & from one group to the next.
I’ve learned a great deal in this journey & thank you all for your many years of support.

Sat Dec 9th - U-Party Presents: A Roaring 20's Yuletide Speakeasy (Underground Parties): December brings an annual favorite to celebrate Yule. But this year we're offering a twist to mark the 90th Anniversary for the Repeal of Prohibition! We plan to kick off the holidays w/ a Speakeasy of epic proportion. So we hope you'll join us an awesome night you won't want to miss!

Regional Concerts:


Fri Nov 10th - LP Live (BoweryPresents): at The Franklin Music Hall, Philly.


Sat Dec 2nd - Flock of Seaguls (Facebook): at The Filmore, Silver Spring MD.

Mon Dec 18thMadonna Live (CapitalOne): at Capital One Arena DC.

Concert Venues:

DC Metro Area: 

  • The Anthem (TheAnthemDC): 901 Wharf St. SW DC.
  • Echostage (Echostage): 2135 Queens Chapel Rd. NE DC.
  • Capital One Arena (CapitalOneArena): 601 F St NW DC.
  • 9:30 Club (930Club): 815 V St. NW DC.
  • The Atlantis (Atlantis): 2047 9th St. NW DC.
  • Black Cat (BlackCatDC): 1811 14th St. NW DC.
  • The Pie Shop (PieShopDC): 1339 H St NE DC.
  • Union Stage (UnionStage): 740 Water Street SW DC
  • Pearl Street Warehouse (PearlStreet): 33 Pearl St. SW DC.
  • Ivy City Smokehouse (IvyCitySmokehouse): 1356 Okie St. NE DC.
  • The Fillmore (FillmoreSilverSpr): 8656 Colesville Rd. Silver Spring, MD.
  • MGM Grand (MDMGrand):101 MGM National Ave. Oxon Hill, MD.
  • Merriweather Post Pavilion (MerriweatherMusic): 10475 Little Patuxent Pkwy.
  • The State Theater (StateTheater) 220 N Washington St. Falls Church, VA
  • The Birchmere (Birchmere): 3701 Mt Vernon Ave. Alexandria, VA.
  • Jammin Java (JamminJava): 227 Maple Ave E, Vienna, VA.
  • Two Silos Live! (FarmBrewLive): 9901 Discovery Blvd. Manassas, VA. 
  • Jiffy Lube Live (LiveNation): 7800 Cellar Door Dr, Bristow, VA.
  • WolfTrap (WolfTrap): 1551 Trap Rd. Vienna, VA.


Baltimore Metro Area:


Philadelphia & Surrounding Areas:

  • The Fillmore Philly (FillmorePhilly): 29 E Allen St. Philadelphia, PA.
  • Franklin Music Hall (TheBoweryPresents): 421 N 7th St. Philadelphia, PA.
  • Union Transfer (UnionTransfer): 1026 Spring Garden St. Philadelphia, PA.
  • The Foundry (Fillmore/Foundry): 29 E Allen St. 2nd Floor, Philadelphia, PA.
  • Coda (Coda): 1712 Walnut St. Philadelphia, PA.
  • Bar XIII (BarXIII): 1706 Philadelphia Pike, Wilmington, Del.


Richmond Metro Area:

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