• The Calendars Page carries Gateway Links, Featured Events, & Regionial Concerts.
• Our Main Calendar offers a FULL listing of all events from accross the spectrum.
• Major National Events are listed on our Main Calendar & to their own page.
• Weekly Recurring Events are listed here (theme nights are also on our Main Calendar).
• For News regarding recent developments in the scene, please see News & Notes.

Recurring Events for DC, Baltimore, & the Mid-Atlantic Region:

Tuesdays:

• Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).

Wednesdays:

• Transit (Facebook): Weekly EDM Night in Fairfax. Hosted at Auld Shebeen downstairs.
• DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thursdays:

• Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
• DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
• CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill. Dates Vary.

Fridays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
• Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club. Dates vary.

Saturdays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
• The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in Northeast MD.
• PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
• Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sundays:

• Sunday Love (Facebook): Burner based gathering for creative expression. Runs from March to Oct at Flash (NW DC).
• SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
• Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Area, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!

4th Monday:

• Dinner w/ Domme's (Fetlife): The DC Sub Club hosts a monthly dinner at The Assembly in Rosslyn, Va.

1st & 3rd Tuesday: 

• Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group. Dates subject to change.

2nd Tuesday:

• Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in DC. Schedule subject to vary.
• MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable discussion following its monthly meet-up.

1st Wednesday:

• Spectre Happy Hour (Fetlife): Monthly Kink Happy Hour at The Admiral (Dupont Circle) NWDC.

2nd Wednesday: 

• Carroll County Decadence (Fetlife): Monthly gathering for dinner & drinks in Carroll County, Md.

3rd Wednesday:

• Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Kink Social Meet-up at The Ale House, Columbia Md. Dates subject to change.
• LINK / Lancaster in Kink (Fetlife): Gathering in Lancaster, Pa. for the kink set. Dates subject to change.

1st Thursday: 

• DCAS Happy Hour (Fetlife): kink meet-up for DC Anti-Social at various venues throughout the city.
• Gateway (BR.org): Monthly meeting hosted by the Black Rose at The Crucible.

2nd Thursday: 

• BPH Tangled Up (BaltimorePlayhouse): The Baltimore Playhouse hosts an open ropeshare shibari party.

3rd Thursday: 

• Solid State (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts Goth-Indsrial night at Bar XIII (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
• Active & Kinky (Fetlife): DC meet-up at the Continental Beer Garden. On hiatus during winter months.
• Society of the Phoenix (Fetlife): Fire Play education & play night at The Baltimore Playhouse.
• Frederick Geeky & Kinky (Fetlife): Munch Happy Hour at the Dragon Distillery in Frederick, MD.
• Swing Social Club Night (Fetlife): Swinger-Kink social hosted in Dupont (NW DC). Dates subject to change

4th Thursday: 

• BR NaCK (BR.org): Black Rose "New and Curious Kinksters" host a monthly discussion (NW DC).
• Crucible Rendevous (The-Crucible): Queer friendly, Swinger/Kink theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).

1st Friday:

• Dungeon 101 (The-Crucible): The Black Rose hosts Dungeon101 at The Crucible.
• First Contact (Fetlife): Exploratorium & Dungeon 101 Series at The Baltimore Playhouse.
• SE Pa. Social (Fetlife): Social happy hour / meet & greet hosted just outside of Philly.
• TPA Mocha Party (ThePrivateAffair.com): P.O.C. lifestyle party by Mocha at The Private Affair (N.East MD).
• First Friday Dupont (Facebook): Art inspired gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.
• First Friday Art Walk (ihearthighland): Highlandtown Baltimore hosts a gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.

2nd Friday:

• KULTure Shock (Facebook): Industrial, Dark Wave, EBM, & Synthpop dance night (Philly).
• Philadelphia Experiment (thephiladelphiaexperiment): PEX Rave Dance Night at The Liason Room. Subject to change.
• Crucible Black & Kinky (The-Crucible): Open play theme night focused toward P.O.C.

3rd Friday:

• Vortex Friday (Facebook): Dark Wave Dance Night at The Warehouse on Watts by DJ Mighty Mike Saga.
• Crucible QINK (The-Crucible): "Queer Identifying 'N Kinky" Fetish theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).

4th Friday:

• BPH Kinky Karaoki (Fetlife): Kink play party w/ karaoki shenanigans at The Baltimore Playhouse.

1st Saturday:

• Metroschock (Facebook): Baltimore's best Gothic-Fusion dance night at Metro Gallery (1001 North Charles Street).
• Shadowland (Facebook): Darkwave / Electro / Goth-Industrial dance night at Little Mutants in Lancaster, Pa.
• Sinfully Naughty (The-Crucible): Fetish theme night hosted at The Crucible (NE DC).
• Sigma (sigmadc) holds demo educational nights at The Green Lantern (NW DC): 5pm

1st & 3rd Saturday:

• Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men.

2nd Saturday:

• Haunted Palace (Facebook): Baltimore's newest Synth-wave dance night. Dates subject to change pending a new venue.
• Fiction (Facebook): DC's continued legacy for Goth, Industrial, & Darkwave at Haydee's Restaurant.
• Masque (Fetlife): Themed play party by Corrupt Minds, Philly.
• Risque (The-Crucible): EDM Dance Night / Play Party at The Crucible.
• The Aviary (TheAviaryPhilly): Social play-party meets interactive theater night in Philly.  

3rd Saturday:

• Slings & Arrows (Facebook/Groups): Next Generation Dark Wave Goth Night at Jimmy Valentines (NE DC). Dates vary.
• Desires (Facebook/Groups): DC's newest Fetish Dance Party at the Safari Lounge (NW DC).
• Crucible Bruise/Blush (The-Crucible): Femme Fatale open play theme night alternating every other month: Bruise/Blush.
• Spank DC (SpankDC.com): All male spanking party 4pm-8pm upstairs at The Green Lantern (DC).

2nd Sunday:

• BLUF Social (BLUF.com): All Male Leather Social held 4pm each month at Trade (NW DC).

Please Note: clubs & groups such as The Crucible, Black Rose, Baltimore Playhouse, & B.E.S.S all keep VERY busy schedules with evolving special interest groups. So please see respective sites for updates. 

Lately, there's been an explosion of smaller munches with 12 or less in attendance. More prominent meet-ups are listed, but there are too many small gatherings that come & go for us to maintain. If this is of interest then please see Fetlife for possible options in your area.

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