Main Calendar

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Events are covered locally, regionally, & on a national scale. This includes listings for special gatherings, recurring events, & one-time affairs. Members are encouraged to submit entries for consideration. Each listing is sorted by the date of the event then color coded & categorized by the nature of its interest:

Alternative Music & Culture in Rust.
BDSM & Fetish in Red.
Lifestyle & Swinger in Green.
Gay, Bi, & Transgender in Wine.
Mainstream in White.

Please note: some crossover will often exist, so the function in question will be listed by the nature that most predominantly reflects the general practice of its venue.

The Calendars Page carries Gateway Links, Featured Events, & Regionial Concerts.
Major National Events are listed here & under their own page.
Weekly Recurring Events are listed on their own page (theme nights will also be listed here).
For News regarding recent developments in the scene, please see News & Notes.

Full Calendar for DC, Baltimore, the Mid-Atlantic & National Stage: 2024

All calendars are current as of Autumn 2024.

December:

Tue 17th – Saturnalia.

Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).
Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group.

Wed 18th:

Transit (Facebook): Weekly EDM Night in Fairfax. Hosted at Auld Shebeen downstairs.
Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Kink Social Meet-up at The Ale House, Columbia Md.
LINK / Lancaster in Kink (Fetlife): Gathering in Lancaster, Pa. for the kink set.
DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thu 19th:

Solid State (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts Goth-Indsrial night at Bar XIII (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
Active & Kinky (Fetlife): DC meet-up at the Continental Beer Garden. On hiatus during winter months.
Society of the Phoenix (Fetlife): Fire Play education & play night at The Baltimore Playhouse.
Frederick Geeky & Kinky (Fetlife): Munch Happy Hour at the Dragon Distillery in Frederick, MD.
DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.

Fri 20th:

Vortex Friday (Facebook): Dark Wave Dance Night at The Warehouse on Watts by DJ Mighty Mike Saga.
Crucible QINK (The-Crucible): "Queer Identifying 'N Kinky" Fetish theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).
Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (thepleasuregardenclub): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 21st – Winter Solstice / Yule.

Underground Parties Present Yule! (Underground Parties): The Naughty or Nice Yuletide Formal is our favorite tradition for the holidays, not to mention a perfect way to celebrate the season! Even better, this year our date actually falls on Yule! Since it's the holidays, we purposely keep this one smaller for a more intimate affair. But we offer the perfect mix for a mid-winter gathering & a celebration worthy of the Old Gods! So dress to impress & be ready to play (be it naughty or nice)!

Offering: Pole Dancing by top performers, Hot Tub, Sybian, Fully Equiped Dungeon, Medical Play Room, Loft Area Playspace, Massage, Violet Wand, Top Notch 2-Zone Music, & more. We provide a beautiful buffet & full service BYOB Bar, including specialty drinks & an array of mixers.

U-Party is guest-list only & runs generally through Evite. If interested, please see our main event page for vetting & contact. Please note: we do not offer gender-based pricing, but due to the nature of our parties, all single guys must be accompanied by a date.

Sun 22nd:

SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Area, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!

Mon 23rd – Festivus.

Trans Siberian Orchestra (CapitalOne): at the Capital One Arena DC.
Dinner w/ Domme's Holiday Party (Fetlife): DC Sub Club hosts a monthly dinner at The Assembly in Rosslyn, Va.

Tue 24th – X-mas Eve.

Wed 25th – X-mas Day.

Thu 26th – Boxing Day / Hanukkah / Begin Kwanzaa.

Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
BR NaCK (BR.org): Black Rose "New and Curious Kinksters" host a monthly discussion (NW DC).
Crucible Rendevous (The-Crucible): Queer friendly, Swinger/Kink theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).
DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.

Fri 27th:

Black Rose Social (The-Crucible): Fetish night for Black Rose at The Crucible (NE DC).
BPH Kinky Karaoki (Fetlife): Kink play party w/ karaoki shenanigans at The Baltimore Playhouse.
Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (thepleasuregardenclub): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club.

Sat 28th:

Crucible Animal House (The-Crucible): Fetish theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).
Baltimore Playhouse (BaltimorePlayhouse): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in Northeast MD.
PGC Theme Night (thepleasuregardenclub.net): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sun 29th:

SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Area, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!

Mon 30th – Richard A.D. Birthday.

Tue 31st – New Year’s Eve.

NYE Fetish Ball (FetishFactory): By Fetish Factory in Ft.Lauderdale, Fla.
Torture Garden NYE Ball (TortureGarden): London hosts one of the largest fetish balls in Europe.
The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds an open play NYE celebration.
Tabu New Years Eve (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair.com): Lifestyle play party on-premise in Northeast MD.
PGC NYE Ball (thepleasuregardenclub.net): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, NYE Formal.
Saints&Sinners (SaintsandSinners): on-premise play party social by Saints & Sinners in Philly.
Hampton Roads NYE Gala (HamptonRoads): Hotel Gala w/ on-site suites following the ball.
Hedonism NYE Getaway (Hedonism): Week-long themed event at Hedonism II in Jamaica.
New Culture NYE Celebration (cfnc.us): Poly retreat at Abrams Creek Spirit Center, West Virginia.

Wed Jan 1^st – New Year’s Day.

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