• The Calendars Page carries Gateway Links, Featured Events, & Regionial Concerts.
• Our Main Calendar offers a FULL listing of all events from accross the spectrum.
• Major National Events are listed on our Main Calendar & to their own page.
• Weekly Recurring Events are listed here (theme nights are also on our Main Calendar).
• For News regarding recent developments in the scene, please see News & Notes.

Recurring Events for DC, Baltimore, & the Mid-Atlantic Region:

Tuesdays:

• Dirty Sexy Bingo (BarXIII): This isn't your granma's bingo. By Bar XIII in Delaware. 
• Black Rose (BR.org): holds a weekly educational forum at The Crucible (NE DC).

Wednesdays:

• Transit (Facebook): Weekly DnB, Bass, Techno Night in Fairfax. At the Auld Shebeen downstairs.
• DC Prime Timers (PrimeTimersDC): Gathering of older gay/bi men, upstairs at the Dupont Italian Kitchen.

Thursdays:

• Dark Constellation (Facebook): DC's newest weekly Dark Alt. Dance night at The Renegade (Clarendon, Va).
• Asylum 13 (Facebook): Nation's longest running weekly Dark Alt. Dance night is hosted at Bar XIII (Wilmington Del).
• DC After Dark (Wordpress): Meet & Greet Happy Hour at Midlands.
• CapitolBate (Mailchimp): All Male Masturbation Group at a private gallery on Capitol Hill. Dates Vary.

Fridays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (Fetlife): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle social play party on-premise in Catonsville, MD.
• The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
• Fantasy Fridays w/ The PGC (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club. Dates vary.

Saturdays:

• The Crucible (The-Crucible): Holds open play or scheduled theme nights.
• Baltimore Playhouse (Fetlife): Baltimore Playhouse scheduled theme night.
• Tabu Social Club (TabuLife): Lifestyle Social & Play Party hosted On-Premise in Catonsville, MD.
• The Private Affair (ThePrivateAffair): Lifestyle social play party hosted on-premise in NE MD.
• PGC Theme Night (Facebook): Philly's Pleasure Garden Club, dates are subject to change.
• Lima Twist Drag Brunch (DragShowBrunch): Upscale Drag every Saturday from 12pm-3pm. Reservations Required.

Sundays:

• Sunday Love (Instagram): Burner based gathering for creative expression. Runs from March to Oct at Flash (NW DC).
• SIR (SaxWDC): For the ladies, all male burlesque brunch at Sax, NW DC. Tickets are required.
• Best Resource for Drag Brunch: held throughout the DC Metro, Baltimore, Philadelphia, & Richmond!

4th Monday:

• Dinner w/ Domme's (Fetlife): The DC Sub Club hosts a monthly dinner at The Assembly in Rosslyn, Va.

1st & 3rd Tuesday: 

• Philadelphia Jacks (PhiladelphiaJacks.com): All male masturbation group. Dates subject to change.

2nd Tuesday:

• Tuesday Night Slosh (Fetlife): Kink-set gathering at the Northside Tavern in DC. Schedule subject to vary.
• MAsT (mastwashington.org) holds a roundtable discussion following its monthly meet-up.

3rd Wednesday:

• Columbia Unwound (Fetlife): Kink Social Meet-up at The Ale House, Columbia Md.

1st Thursday: 

• Gateway (BR.org): Monthly meeting hosted by the Black Rose at The Crucible.

2nd Thursday: 

• BPH Tangled Up (Fetlife): The Baltimore Playhouse hosts an open ropeshare shibari party.

3rd Thursday: 

• Solid State (Facebook): Wilmington Del. hosts Goth-Indsrial night at Bar XIII (1706 Philadelphia Pike).
• Active & Kinky (Fetlife): DC meet-up at the Continental Beer Garden. On hiatus during winter months.
• Society of the Phoenix (Fetlife): Fire Play education & play night at The Baltimore Playhouse.

4th Thursday: 

• BR NaCK (BR.org): Black Rose "New and Curious Kinksters" host a monthly discussion (NW DC).
• Crucible Rendevous (The-Crucible): Queer friendly, Swinger/Kink theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).

1st Friday:

• Slings & Arrows (Instagram): Next Generation Dark Wave Goth Night at DC9 (NW DC).
• Dungeon 101 (The-Crucible): The Black Rose hosts Dungeon101 at The Crucible.
• First Contact (Fetlife): Exploratorium & Dungeon 101 Series at The Baltimore Playhouse.
• SE Pa. Social (Fetlife): Social happy hour / meet & greet hosted just outside of Philly.
• TPA Mocha Party (ThePrivateAffair.com): P.O.C. lifestyle party by Mocha at The Private Affair (N.East MD).
• First Friday Art Walk (ihearthighland): Highlandtown Baltimore hosts a gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.
• First Friday Dupont (Facebook): Art inspired gallery tour w/ wine tastings & more.

2nd Friday:

• Crucible Black & Kinky (The-Crucible): Open play theme night focused toward P.O.C.

3rd Friday:

• Vortex Friday (Facebook): Dark Wave Dance Night at The Warehouse on Watts by DJ Mighty Mike Saga.
• Crucible QINK (The-Crucible): "Queer Identifying 'N Kinky" Fetish theme night at The Crucible (NE DC).

4th Friday:

• BPH Kinky Karaoki (Fetlife): Kink play party w/ karaoki shenanigans at The Baltimore Playhouse.

1st Saturday:

• Metroschock (Facebook): Baltimore's best Gothic-Fusion dance night at Metro Gallery (1001 North Charles Street).
• Shadowland (Instagram): Darkwave / Electro / Goth-Industrial dance night at Little Mutants in Lancaster, Pa.
• Sinfully Naughty (The-Crucible): Fetish theme night hosted at The Crucible (NE DC).
• Sigma (sigmadc) holds demo educational nights at The Green Lantern (NW DC): 5pm

1st & 3rd Saturday:

• Cum Union Philly (CumUnion.com): National sex club for gay & bi men.

2nd Saturday:

• Fiction (Facebook): DC's continued legacy for Goth, Industrial, & Darkwave at Haydee's Restaurant.
• Masque (Fetlife): Themed play party by Corrupt Minds, Philly.
• Risque (The-Crucible): EDM Dance Night / Play Party at The Crucible.
• The Aviary (TheAviaryPhilly): Social play-party meets interactive theater night in Philly.  

3rd Saturday:

• Impuse (Facebook): DC's newest Fetish Dance Party at the Safari Lounge (NW DC). Formally Desires.
• Crucible Bruise/Blush (The-Crucible): Femme Fatale open play theme night alternating every other month: Bruise/Blush.
• Spank DC (SpankDC.com): All male spanking party 4pm-8pm upstairs at The Green Lantern (DC).

4th Saturday:

• KULTure Shock (Facebook): Industrial, Dark Wave, EBM, & Synthpop dance night (Philly).

2nd Sunday:

• BLUF Social (BLUF.com): All Male Leather Social held 4pm each month at Trade (NW DC).

Please Note: clubs & groups such as The Crucible, Black Rose, Baltimore Playhouse, & B.E.S.S all keep VERY busy schedules with evolving special interest groups. So please see respective sites for updates. 

There's been an explosion of smaller munches with 12 or less in attendance. More prominent meet-ups are listed, but smaller gatherings that come & go will not be maintained. If this is of interest then please see Fetlife for possible options in your area.

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